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First of May Petticoat Day

May 1, 2008 · 8 Comments

Was this a strange New Jersey custom? Or an old-country custom that founds its way to the East Coast? When I was a kid in the 60’s (just before love peace and brown rice) there were several customs tied to May Day. The boys mostly, but also girls would shout “First of May, Petticoat Day” and flip up the edge of a girl’s uniform skirt to show her slip. Some years I would wear shorts under my uniform so that I didn’t have on a petticoat. (a doofus even then) Then there was crowning Mary (as in the Blessed Virgin Mary) Queen of the May. I imagine this came from some attempt to christianize a pagan ritual. I was always jealous of the girl that was chosen to crown Mary. She got to wear a pretty dress and a wreath of flowers. I was never chosen for such things, because I was not small and cute, but tall and awkward. The term my grandmother would use was ‘hoyden’ — not who you want traipsing down the aisle with wreaths and flowers

Second of May was Shoelace Day, you shouted that and grabbed someone’s shoelace to untie it. These days the little un’s all seem to have velcro. (Third of May, Velcro Day?

In honor of May, I have finished my first Christmas present. Socks in Kaffe Fasset sock yarn, color Fog. I love this yarn. The colors are beautiful and I wanted to keep going to see what the next stripe would be. I don’t worry about the stripes matching for each sock, as you can see. Whichever sister or niece is the lucky recipient won’t care either. I didn’t make socks last year except for my god daughter and there was much whining. One down, another 10 to go.

MLE

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8 responses so far ↓

  • Chris // May 1, 2008 at 12:54 pm

    Christmas present?! We had May baskets on May 1st - if the giver of said basket was of the opposite gender, you were supposed to give chase and attempt to kiss the giver.

  • Gale // May 1, 2008 at 1:07 pm

    Interesting story. And you’re smart in getting started on that rather large sock-giving list.

  • Becky // May 2, 2008 at 2:55 am

    It must be a NJ thing, because across the river in NYC we didn’t have anything as delightful. In fact, I don’t remember any May Day celebrations, though I do remember having to wear a slip. Do girls still wear them? Probably not. And you’re right, they all seem to have velcro now.

    Happy First of May, from one hoyden to another!

  • Melinda // May 2, 2008 at 11:08 am

    Never heard of Petticoat Day. Now I have heard May referred to as other, not so nice things I shan’t repeat here, but no petticoats or showlaces in California.

    I’m glad to see that I’m not the only one who’s started their Christmas knitting! I’ve got 2.75 down with another 10 to go. I think I might actually be disinherited if I ever decided not to gift socks at Christmas…

  • Anne // May 2, 2008 at 1:12 pm

    We always did a May Day celebration - the whole pagan/phallic May Pole dancing, etc. This was in New Jersey, so perhaps it is a theme there - I haven’t run into it in the other 5 or so states I’ve lived in as a permanent resident since!

  • Miss T // May 2, 2008 at 3:30 pm

    The crown ceremony definitely comes from the old Maypole dance traditions, but I’ve never heard of the petticoat flipping thing. We used to make May baskets out of construction paper and leave them on people’s doorsteps and ring the bell and run.

  • Rippedoffknitter // May 5, 2008 at 12:34 pm

    Haha, never heard of any of those traditions, thanks!
    And I’ve been eyeballing that particular colourway since it came out, but have managed to resist so far…don’t think it will last much longer though, they look great!

  • Serafina // May 9, 2008 at 10:41 pm

    Ok what is scary is that 3o years later I can still remember all the words to “oh Mary we crown thee with blossoms today….”
    That was the BEST tradition of Catholic school. Thanks for the memory.

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